Visiting a loved one with Alzheimer’s can elicit a variety of emotion; you may be unsure of what to say or what activities to do with your loved one when you visit. As a facility that specializes in dementia and Alzheimer’s care we support our residents, the caregivers, and our staff in the fight against this disease.
Here are some tips for visiting a loved one with dementia:
- Keep visits simple to create moments of joy and so it doesn’t overwhelm them
- Find a quiet and comfortable place to visit. Sometimes excess noise and distractions can interrupt the visit. We have various spaces in the facility for use
- Be flexible in your visits. What worked well in the last visit may not in the next visit. Be open to various activities
- Don’t take it personal if your loved one becomes upset. They may be trying to communicate to an unmet need, be tired, or distracted
- Tap into their pleasant past memories.
- Consider visiting one on one or in very small groups
- Give your loved one enough time to respond
- Consider their interests and abilities and ask what they would like to do
There are various activities that engage several senses for your loved one and have meaning to them. Have fun and be creative. One suggestion is to bring music your loved one enjoy to evoke a discussion of old memories for them. It also promotes exercise by encouraging them to move and dance. It can also encourage them to sing along.
Vision can also be stimulating as well:
- Bring photos of other loved ones to discuss, often the older the photos the better to jog their memory.
- Look at items in their rooms such as drawings, photographs and/or greeting cards and discuss how they make your loved one feel.
- Try a new pastime together such as drawing, painting, or coloring with materials from the facility. Coloring has been shown to reduce anxiety and promote focus. For the residents that participate in coloring it also has a big health benefit. It is also used to explore feelings, reconcile emotional conflicts, foster self-awareness, manage behavior, develop social skills, reduce anxiety and increase self-esteem.
Your visit has created treasured moments that have a profound impact. You can also tell your loved one how they inspire you, how you feel about them and listen/empathize with them. Your visit is about respecting and honoring them, having fun and laughing.
For more tips visit Alz.org
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